We’re figuring out how to stay connected as new parents, one small shift at a time
Becoming parents changed everything. We love each other, but we weren’t feeling like ‘us’ anymore.
Instead of waiting for things to get better, we’re testing small shifts to see what actually helps, in real time.
💡 What if reconnecting wasn’t about big gestures, but tiny moments that actually fit into real life?
🔔 Next LoveMail update:
💌 How do we currently feel about our relationship? We created a simple, non-confrontational way to find out.
🔹 The Relationship Reset Guide: Small shifts, big impact
💡Most couples don’t need a massive relationship overhaul – just tiny, consistent tweaks that actually fit into real life.
📌 What’s inside:
✔ Quick relationship check-In: A simple way to reflect on where you’re at (without an awkward “we need to talk” moment).
✔ Pick your own tweaks: A menu of tiny shifts to try, based on what matters most to you.
✔ Reset reflection: A light, easy way to notice what’s helping (without overthinking).
Relationship notes
A space for all the things we’re learning about relationships as new parents.
What works for us might be different for you – so it’s all here.
Read the latest:
Who we are
We’re a couple from the Blue Mountains, Australia, figuring out how to navigate life as first-time parents – without losing ‘us’ in the process.
Like most new parents, we love our child more than anything. But we were exhausted. Conversations became logistics. Time together felt different. And we started to feel… distant.
Instead of waiting for things to change, we decided to experiment, testing small shifts to see what actually helps. Not aiming for perfection, just 1% better every day.
(most days anyway).
We’re not relationship experts. We’re just parents figuring this out in real time.
If you’ve ever wondered, “Are we the only ones struggling with this?” – you’re not.
This reset isn’t just ours – it’s yours too.
– Love B
